BAD DAD UPDATE

photo by Gabriella Fabbri

Mad dad bites off son's penis ----------------- WHAT???

I thought, this just has to be a joke. Not true. Bad headline. I wish.

For a woman, I am pretty protective of my sons' penises. They get red, I apply cream. They mindlessly yank on them too hard, I tell them to stop. They say it stings when they pee, I take them to the doctor. I would not as much cut their foreskin off, never mind bite off the entire member.

I still cannot believe what I am reading. There is so much that is wrong with this story.

First, Bad Dad was walking down a street in Shenzhen, Guangdong Province, China with his 6-year-old son and 4-year-old daughter. The kicker — they were all naked.

Am I missing something? Is there a tradition of walking naked through the streets of China. Googling "Walk naked China" delivers quite a few videos and stories, so maybe?

Second, the reason why Bad Dad was mad was because the boy refused to bite his penis. I do not know why the man wanted to have his penis bitten, but I have a feeling he wanted his  to remain attached to his body. Sadly, this boy's punishment for not obeying was having his penis bit off by his own father.

The quick action of passing citizens saved the boy, whose penis was reattached (it as retrieved from a bush where it had been thrown). There is no way of knowing whether he will have lifelong physical problems or not yet. Obviously, his psychological problems will be bad enough. Too bad the little guy will continue to suffer.

The 32-year-old man had money problems, his wife left him in 2010 after a failed business venture and he had some serious parenting issues. Obviously, this Bad Dad has mental problems. I hope he and his kids get help and stay safe.

A link to the story on huffingtonpost.com appears below. There, you can click through to the original story at shanghaidaily.com.

Messed up for life

Punishment for soiling themselves: death and hypothermia

photo by Alexander Hjorth

Lazy, mean, drunk people act in the most irresponsible way

Picture this. Location: winter in Barrow, Alaska, the most northernmost city in the United States. Scenario: two little girls, a 1-year-old and a 3-year-old, wet their beds in the night. The room is a wee bit stinky, so drunk Bad Boyfriend and Mean Mom (we do not know for sure if she was there) decide to open the bedroom window even though it is 30 degrees below freezing outside. The door is locked from the outside and the adults pass out after polishing off two bottles of bootleg alcohol.

Now the 3-year-old is dead. The 1-year-old was treated at a local hospital and released to relatives.

When the story was first reported by the Alaska Daily News, it said the children were beaten, but as the investigation unraveled, it became apparent that this was a case of extreme abuse, neglect and some seriously poor priorities. The Mean Mom told one story. Bad Boyfriend told another story. In the end the horrible truth of what happened emerged, and it seems like more of the story is not being released. Like, where was Mean Mom that night? How did she not know there was a chill in the air? She really just left for work without checking on her children?

Charges including manslaughter and criminally negligent homicide are being brought up against both. Bad Boyfriend is also being charged with second-degree murder and assault charges. He was arrested last month.

There is so much wrong here.

The children were found naked. Um, ever hear of a diaper? Towel? Pillowcase? Anything that would have helped these poor girls to not soil themselves so the lazy-ass “caregivers” wouldn’t have had to bother with a middle-of-the night changing anyway. Jeez, how about some clothing at least.

But no, these kids did not even have bedding or blankets in the room. Or a way out. The latch was” broken.” Yeah, right. By the sound of these “parents” they probably rigged it so they could keep the kids locked in there. A whole other issue is: Who locks kids that young in a bedroom. Kids need supervision people. But, I am getting away from the story.

Mean Mom was a school teacher, so obviously some money was available for clothing. A SCHOOL TEACHER? Really? You would think she would have a bit more compassion for kids. Especially her own kids.

Bad Boyfriend’s last wife had passed on -- she claims she feared for her safety around him – and their three kids were staying in the house as well. I guess Mean Mom should have picked a better man.

As of this writing, Mean Mom is on the “lam” and Bad Boyfriend is in custody. A link to a more detailed story in the Alaska Daily News is below and below that is a link to photos of the cute little girls from dailymail.co.

Baby, it’s cold outside

How can you make something so cute so cold?

Mean Moms and meth do not mix

Holy crap, there is a video

Thankfully, the video only shows what happened prior to this Mean California Mom shooting and killing her two children,  her babies daddy's cousin and herself, and wounding the kid's dad.

It features this Mean Mom and another man (the cousin) smoking methamphetamine, and the time stamp on the iPad it was recorded on indicates it was taken just hours before the dad did his bloody stumble out of their pretty nice apartment in a pretty decent complex. Hey, there was a playground.

The couple seemed "normal" to neighbors — don't they all? Yet, inside their shared walls police found lots of cash, meth, guns and misery.

The Mean Mom had apparently lost a baby a year or so ago, was unable to get over it. Instead of find her help, her "family" allowed her to drown her sorrows in drugs. Now her other babies are dead, and so is she.

What a shame.

A link to the story as it appears on azcentral.com is below.

Meth will mess you up